Planning Guide

Updated: 17 September 2026

Wedding Checklist: Every Item, From Borang Nikah to Door Gifts

This is the same list that lives in the MajlisKenduri dashboard: 12 categories, close to 170 items, starting with the SPPIM kebenaran berkahwin steps and the documents the pejabat agama will ask for. Tick things off right here. The page remembers your progress on this device.

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How the list is organised

The app splits the wedding into 12 categories. The first one is the nikah paperwork, because it has the longest lead time and the least room for mistakes. The rest follow roughly the order you will spend money on them.

In the dashboard you can add your own items and hide the ones that do not apply. On this page, the list is the stock version.

CategoryWhat is in it
Procedure Permohonan NikahThe six SPPIM steps, dokumen wajib, dokumen berkaitan, and the extra papers for a non-citizen spouse
EssentialsPre-marriage, the marriage procedure (course, HIV screening, wali, witnesses, PPNCR), and the first wedding decisions
VenueCanopy, hall or hotel, RELA, PA system, then the pelamin, arch, centrepieces and the surau corner
FoodCaterer and headcount, main and side dishes, kuih, cake, drinks, the beradab menu, food for the rewang
ProtocolGuest lists from both families, cards and the e-card, bunting, the rundown, MC, ushers, the family spokesperson
SouvenirsDoor gifts for guests, and tokens for the Tok Kadi, the MC, the ushers and the photographers
MediaPhotographer, videographer, shot list, drone permission, backing up the files
EntertainmentMarhaban, kompang, dikir barat, silat, a live band or DJ, karaoke, photobooth
AccommodationHotel or homestay for the bridal party, mattresses and bedding for family staying over
TransportationCars for the entourage, the couple’s car, one spare for the elderly, parking on the day
Attire & BeautyBaju nikah, baju sanding, mak andam, trial makeup, the groom’s samping and tengkolok, family uniform
BudgetOverall budget, the split between families, deposits, hantaran costs, a contingency fund

Permohonan nikah: the six SPPIM steps

SPPIM is the online marriage-permission system for nine states: Negeri Sembilan, Melaka, Perlis, Kedah, Perak, Selangor, Johor, Terengganu and the Federal Territories. Penang, Sarawak, Kelantan and Pahang run their own portals, and Sabah still hands out forms at the pejabat agama. The steps below are what the SPPIM site describes, in plain words.

  1. 1

    Cipta Permohonan Kebenaran Kahwin

    Fill in the basic details to get an application reference number. Both of you get an email notification.

  2. 2

    Lengkapkan Permohonan

    Search with your IC number and the reference number, then fill in the rest. You can save halfway and come back. Download the HIV screening form early, the clinic visit takes time.

  3. 3

    Muat Turun Borang

    Each of you downloads your own set: the kebenaran form, the HIV form, and for the bride the wakalah wali and tertib wali forms. Print the senarai semak too.

  4. 4

    Dapatkan Pengesahan Kebenaran Berkahwin

    In Negeri Sembilan, Melaka, Perlis, Kedah, Perak, Selangor and the Federal Territories, take the forms to the PPNCR at your masjid kariah. Johor and Terengganu skip this step, the Pendaftar confirms it at the pejabat agama.

  5. 5

    Hantar Permohonan

    Upload the supporting documents and submit. If you are under different pejabat agama, the groom submits first and the bride submits once his is approved. Nothing can be edited after submission, so check the spelling of every name.

  6. 6

    Hadir ke Pejabat Agama

    Go in once the email or the portal says so, and pay the fees online or at the counter, depending on the state.

Documents the pejabat agama will ask for

These nine are wajib for everyone in SPPIM states. Original plus one certified copy unless noted. The interactive list above also carries the dokumen berkaitan (court permission, wakalah wali, mastautin letter and the like) and the extra papers for a non-citizen spouse.

  • IC or passport for both of you
  • Birth certificate, if you have no IC
  • Surat pengesahan bujang from your employer, ketua kampung or imam (original)
  • HIV screening confirmation from a government Klinik Kesihatan (original)
  • Sijil Kursus Pra Perkahwinan Islam
  • The wali’s IC (bride)
  • The wali’s birth certificate, if he is the eldest brother (bride)
  • Parents’ surat perakuan nikah or cerai (bride)
  • Four passport photos each, songkok for him and full tudung for her, if you marry in Negeri Sembilan

Book these first

Anything tied to a date goes first. Popular halls and caterers are gone a year ahead for school-holiday weekends, and a good mak andam takes maybe two bookings a day.

  • Venue or canopy, 9 to 12 months out. Decide home, hall or hotel before anything else, it sets the guest count and the budget.
  • Caterer at the same time. Confirm the headcount range now and the final pax a week before.
  • Mak andam and the baju nikah, 6 months out. Trial makeup one month before.
  • Photographer and videographer, 6 months out. Ask about drone permission if the venue is near an airport.
  • Pelamin and decor, 4 to 6 months. The colour theme decides the hantaran wrapping too, so settle it early.
  • Tok Kadi or jurunikah, and the imam for doa selamat, once the nikah date is fixed.

The last two weeks

Most of the Protocol, Souvenirs and Transportation categories land here. It is the part where a shared list pays off, because half the items are being done by a cousin, not by you.

  • Final headcount to the caterer, from the RSVPs.
  • Rundown printed, MC script done, the family spokesperson knows what to say.
  • Door gifts packed, and separate tokens for the Tok Kadi, the imam, the MC and the photographers.
  • Cars confirmed: the entourage, the couple, one spare for the elderly and the kids. Someone owns parking.
  • Mattresses and bedding for family staying over. The rewang eat too, so order their food.
  • A day-of kit: rings, documents, spare clothes, power bank, Panadol.

Make the invitation the easiest item

The e-card sits in the Protocol category, and it is the one you can finish in an afternoon. A digital card goes out as a single link, gets edited after sending if a name is wrong, and its RSVP feeds the headcount you need for the caterer. Finish it early and one whole row of the list goes grey.

Frequently asked questions

Which states use SPPIM?

Negeri Sembilan, Melaka, Perlis, Kedah, Perak, Selangor, Johor, Terengganu and the Federal Territories (Kuala Lumpur, Putrajaya, Labuan). Penang uses e-Munakahat, Sarawak uses KISWA, Kelantan uses e-Qaryah, Pahang has its own e-Munakahat, and Sabah gives out forms at the pejabat agama.

How long is the kebenaran berkahwin valid?

90 days from the date it is issued. If the nikah slips past that, you apply again.

How long is the HIV screening valid?

Six months from the test date. Do it after the date is fixed, not a year ahead.

What should be booked first?

The venue or canopy and the caterer. Both are tied to a date, and the good slots on school-holiday weekends go a year out. Photographer and mak andam come next.

When should the invitation card be ready?

Design it 3 to 4 months before the majlis and send it 4 to 8 weeks out. A digital card takes hours to make, but parents’ full names and the address still need a family read-through.

Does this page save my ticks?

Yes, in this browser only. Clear your site data and it is gone. The dashboard version saves to your account, and your partner can tick from their phone too.

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