Planning Guide

Updated: 10 September 2026

What To Put On A Wedding Invitation: 12 Details & The Right Order

A complete wedding invitation carries 12 details: both names, who is hosting, the type of majlis, the date and day, start and end times, the full address, a map link, contact numbers, the RSVP instruction, a dress code, logistics notes, and one closing line. The order they sit in matters too, and a few of them go missing from almost every card.

Flat lay of a songket-edged wedding card with a pen, a small map pin token and the corner of a calendar.

The 12 details a wedding invitation needs

This list holds for printed and digital cards alike. The only real difference is space: paper forces you to drop a few items, a screen does not. Run through it before the card goes out, because correcting a detail after 300 people already have the card is a job nobody wants.

  • Both names in full, spelled exactly as they appear on the IC.
  • Who is hosting: the parents of both sides, or the couple themselves.
  • The type of majlis: akad nikah, walimatulurus, reception or bersanding.
  • The full date with the day of the week, and the year written out.
  • A start time and an end time, not "12pm onwards".
  • The full address including hall name, taman and postcode.
  • A map link to Waze or Google Maps.
  • Two contact numbers, and neither should be the couple's.
  • The RSVP instruction with a closing date.
  • A dress code or theme colour, if you have one.
  • Logistics notes: parking, session timing, surau, nursing room.
  • One short closing line at the foot of the card.

The right order, top to bottom

A guest reads downward and stops at the date. The sequence below is ordered for the five seconds someone actually spends on your card the first time they open it.

  1. 1

    Opening line

    A short line at the head of the card, usually a bismillah or a line of gratitude. We are not listing wording here because there is a separate page for that. Structurally, all that matters is that it stays short and does not push the names into the bottom half.

  2. 2

    Who is inviting

    If the parents are hosting, their names come first. If the couple are hosting themselves, this line becomes a short sentence from the two of them. Do not mix the two styles on one card.

  3. 3

    The couple's names

    The largest element on the card. Whose name comes first follows whoever is hosting. Have someone other than the couple check the spelling, because your own eye reads the name you remember rather than the one printed.

  4. 4

    Majlis type, date and time

    These three sit together. Write the day alongside the date so nobody has to open a calendar. Two sessions means two stated times, not one long range.

  5. 5

    Address and map

    Full address first, then the map link or QR code. A hall name alone is not enough. There are several halls with the same name in this country, and someone will confidently drive to the wrong one.

  6. 6

    RSVP and contact numbers

    Put the RSVP instruction directly after the location, while the guest is still working out whether they can make it. Two numbers is enough, and pick people who will genuinely answer during the week of the majlis.

  7. 7

    Small print at the foot

    Dress code, parking, session notes. This block is the first casualty on a printed card, even though it is the part that rescues guests on the day.

The details couples forget most

Names, dates and venues rarely go missing. What goes missing is the information the hosts know so well they forget nobody else does.

  • The end time. Without it, afternoon guests arrive as the tent is being taken down.
  • Parking. If the hall car park holds 40 cars and you invited 300 people, say where else to park.
  • How many people are invited. "And family" and "and partner" mean very different things to your budget.
  • The dress code or theme colour, especially if you want the family photos to match.
  • Zohor and Asar prayer times for a midday majlis, with the nearest surau.
  • A note for guests using a wheelchair or carrying a baby, if the venue has stairs.

Maps and directions: what guests actually need

Most "we got lost" complaints come from a correct address that cannot be tapped. Nobody is typing 60 characters into Waze while already sitting in the driver's seat.

A tappable Waze or Google Maps link solves most of it. For a kampung house with no street address, a Google Maps plus code is more precise than a road name and still fits on one line. Test the link from someone else's phone before the card goes out. A pin that opens your own house in January instead of the hall in March is a common mistake when the map is set from a laptop.

What fits on a printed card versus a digital one

Paper is bounded by its own size, so every addition pushes something else off. A digital card has no such limit, which brings the opposite risk: it grows long because everything can be added.

DetailPrinted cardDigital card
Names, date, time, addressFitsFits
Location mapNeeds a QR code or a long addressA button that opens Waze
RSVPA separate reply card or a phone numberA button with a running pax count
Dress code and parking notesUsually cut for spaceFits, and costs nothing extra
Full majlis run sheetRarely fitsCan be its own section
Fixing an error after sendingReprint the batchEdit it; the link stays the same

Five checks before the card goes out

Five minutes now, or an afternoon of phone calls later.

  • Both names and the parents' names, spelled and checked by a third person.
  • The day and the date agree. 20 March 2027 is a Saturday; if the card says Sunday, someone turns up on the wrong day.
  • The map link opens on a different phone and lands at the right place.
  • The RSVP number is reachable, and its owner knows they are the contact.
  • The RSVP closing date still leaves room before the caterer needs your final count.

Frequently asked questions

How much information should a wedding invitation carry?

Twelve items: both names, the hosts, the type of majlis, the date, start and end times, the full address, a map link, contact numbers, the RSVP instruction, a dress code, logistics notes and a closing line. Printed cards usually have to drop the last three.

Whose names go at the top, the parents or the couple?

Whoever is hosting. A family-hosted majlis leads with the parents' names and puts the couple below. A couple hosting on their own can lead with their own names. Just keep one style throughout the card.

Should a wedding invitation include a phone number?

Yes, two of them. Pick siblings or relatives who will pick up during the week of the majlis. The couple's own numbers are a poor choice, because on the day the phone is usually in a bag in the makeup room.

Is a dress code necessary?

If you have a theme colour and want the family photos to match, yes. Name the actual colours rather than the mood. "Dusty pink or grey" tells a guest something; "modern rustic" gets interpreted eight different ways.

What if the venue address is too long to fit?

Shorten it to the hall name and the town, then let a map link carry the guest to the right entrance. On a printed card a QR code replaces the long address block and frees up the space for parking notes.

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